In His Own Words
About Him
Ek is 'n standvastige, hardwerkende man wat 'n goeie betrekking het en wat baie aandag en tyd aan my beroep bestee. Ek probeer 'n reguit pad stap en is 'n mense-mens wat goed met die meeste mense oor die weg kom. Eerlikheid en integriteit is vir my belangrik. Mense rondom my beskryf my dikwels as 'n tegemoetkomende, gawe en liefdevolle mens wat my eie skoene sal uittrek om aan iemand anders sonder skoene te gee.
Ek is getroud met 'n vrou wat kort na ons tweede kind se geboorte met 'n ernstige geestesversteuring gediagnoseer is. Die versteuring is medies van aard en vanweë geen fout van haar eie nie. Oor die afgelope agt jaar het ek haar na die beste van my vermoë ondersteun terwyl ek grootliks verantwoordelikheid neem vir ons twee kinders se opvoeding en ons huishouding. Onder medikasie en met hulp funksioneer sy op die oog af "normaal" hoewel haar persoonlikheid en sintuie "afgestomp" geraak het. Oor die laaste 8 jaar was daar tussen ons min sprake van 'n huwelik. Sy beskik nie meer oor die vermoë om verhoudings te onderhou nie.
Ek het gekom by 'n punt waar ek waansinnig wil raak van eensaamheid. Ek mis lekker gesels, ek mis vriendskap, ek mis liefde en aanraking.
My situasie is wat dit is. Ek het my verantwoordelikhede. Ek is eerlik daaroor en ek kan dit nie verander nie.
Miskien is daar iemand vir wie vriendskap met die oog op 'n huwelik nie die een en al is nie, en wat bereid is om sommer net 'n naby vriendin te word.
About His Ideal Match
Ek sal hou van 'n eerlike, netjiese, vriendin met 'n goeie sin vir humor
- iemand wat die lewe nie te ernstig neem nie,
- nie gou oordeel nie-
- dalk iemand in 'n soortgelyke situasie?
- iemand wat tevrede sal wees met vriendskap
-iemand wat nie speel met mense se lewens en gevoelens nie.
Op hierdie plasing kan ek my die oordele van n hele paar dames indink. Laat die een sonder foute dan die eerste klip gooi.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
Pretoria, Gauteng, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
56 | |
Star Sign: |
Capricorn | |
Height: |
185cm (6' 0.8") | |
Body Type: |
Stocky | |
Looks: |
Average | |
Hair Colour: |
Dark Brown | |
Eye Colour: |
Brown | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Afrikaans | |
Other Languages: |
English | |
Religion: |
Ask me later | |
Relationship Status: |
Married | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Friends; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker | |
Education: |
Postgraduate degree | |
Occupation: |
Executive / Management | |
Income: |
Comfortable |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | ||
Location: |
Centurion; Cullinan; Pretoria; Benoni; Bronkhorstspruit; Kempton Park; Randburg; Roodepoort; Johannesburg (Gauteng, South Africa) | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
35 - 65 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
150cm (4' 11.1") - 190cm (6' 2.8") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic; A few extra pounds; Curvaceous | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Blue; Blue-Green; Brown; Green; Grey; Hazel | ||
Has a Photo: |
Moderately important | ||
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | ||
Home Language: |
Afrikaans; Dutch; English; French; German; Italian | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Christian / Protestant; Christian / Other; Spiritual, but not religious; Christian / Orthodox | ||
Relationship Status: |
Any | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things; Eat healthily | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Current University / College Student; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Solvent; Enough; Comfortable; Wealthy |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Intelligent; Optimistic; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Compassion; Contentment; Friendliness; Honesty; Humility; Kindness; Self-control; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Outdoorsy (I'm usually dressed for the bush) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Blue |
Date Activities: |
A movie; Dinner at a restaurant; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks |
Music Preferences: |
Classical; Country & Western; Folk; Instrumental; Pop / Top 40 |
Reading: |
I love it |
Books: |
Business; History; Non-fiction; Religious; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I mostly use my TV for news or sport |
TV Shows: |
Comedy / Sit-coms; Documentaries; Nature / Wildlife |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Comedy; Romance; Westerns |
Interests: |
Business news; Gardening; Reading; Woodworking; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Birdwatching; Camping; Fishing; Hiking; Horse Riding; Rugby; Tennis; Walking |
Cooking: |
I cook rather than starve |
Food: |
Italian; Pub Grub; South African |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Hectic |
Time at Work: |
I always put in overtime |
Pastimes of choice: |
Gardening |
Time Online: |
I'm on several hours a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Willing to Relocate: |
Not at all |
Animals: |
I love my pet(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence; Long hair; Showing affection in public |
Turn-offs: |
Power; Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Dream Home: |
Cottage in the country |
Politics: |
Moderate |
Feelings about using SA Reunited MatureLove: |
Nervous; Embarrassed |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
