In His Own Words
About Him
I'm a thinker and reflectionist, intrigued by the world around me. Creative, realistic, and intelligent with a witty sense of humour. I hold respect for the role of religion, however my path tends more towards spirituality. Life for me is about staying active—physically, mentally, and emotionally. Semi-retired, I left Johannesburg in early 2024 to embark on a journey through South Africa’s rural landscapes, volunteering my time and skills to meaningful causes. It’s been a humbling, rewarding adventure, and now I’m focusing on the Eastern Cape for 2025.
But life isn’t just about the road it’s also about connection. I’m would like to meet someone who’s kept her spirit as vibrant as her appearance, someone with a little bohemian spark who dares to see life differently. If you’ve been waiting for a reason to step out of your comfort zone, maybe this is it. Let’s see where the conversation takes us.
About His Ideal Match
Someone who takes interest in the world around her and kind in nature. A woman that is intelligent, active, takes care of herself and desires companionship to share it all. If you enjoy travelling, seeking a friend and are open to a connection that has the potential to evolve , I would be keen to hear from you.
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About Him
Country of Origin: |
South Africa | |
Location: |
East London, Eastern Cape, South Africa | |
Gender: |
Male | |
Age: |
61 | |
Star Sign: |
Gemini | |
Height: |
187cm (6' 1.6") | |
Body Type: |
Slim | |
Looks: |
Attractive | |
Hair Colour: |
Greying | |
Eye Colour: |
Blue | |
Ethnicity: |
White/Caucasian | |
Home Language: |
Ask me later | |
Other Languages: |
Ask me later | |
Religion: |
Spiritual, but not religious | |
Relationship Status: |
Divorced | |
Looking for: |
Activity partners; Open to possibilities; Long-term | |
Have Children: |
Yes, not living with me | |
Want Children: |
No | |
Daily Diet: |
Eat most things | |
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker | |
Drinking: |
Occasional Drinker | |
Education: |
Bachelors degree | |
Occupation: |
Other | |
Income: |
Enough |
About His Ideal Match
Country of Origin: |
Anywhere in the World | ||
Location: |
Anywhere in South Africa | ||
Gender: |
Female | ||
Age Range: |
50 - 61 | ||
Star Sign: |
Any | ||
Height: |
154cm (5' 0.6") - 178cm (5' 10.1") | ||
Body Type: |
Slim; Average; Athletic | ||
Looks: |
Beauty contest winner; Very Attractive; Above Average; Average; Attractive | ||
Hair Colour: |
Any | ||
Eye Colour: |
Any | ||
Has a Photo: |
Non-negotiable | ||
Ethnicity: |
Coloured; Indian; White/Caucasian; Mixed | ||
Home Language: |
Any | ||
Other Languages: |
Afrikaans; English | ||
Religion: |
Any | ||
Relationship Status: |
Single; Separated; Divorced; Widowed | ||
Have Children: |
Any | ||
Want Children: |
No | ||
Daily Diet: |
Any | ||
Smoking: |
Non-Smoker; Occasional; Trying to Quit; E-cigarette User | ||
Drinking: |
Non-Drinker; Occasional Drinker; Regular Drinker | ||
Education: |
High / secondary school; Some University / College; Technical Diploma; Associates degree; Bachelors degree; Postgraduate degree; PhD / Post Doctoral | ||
Occupation: |
Any | ||
Income: |
Any |
- Not important at all
- Slightly important
- Moderately important
- Decidedly important
- Non-negotiable
More About Him
Hair Style: |
Short |
Eyesight: |
I sometimes wear glasses |
Facial Hair: |
I'm clean-shaven |
Body Hair: |
Light |
Disabilities: |
I have none |
Body Art: |
I don't have any |
Sense of Humour: |
Witty |
Intelligence: |
Intelligent |
Ruled by: |
The head |
Party Behaviour: |
An average mingler |
Personality Traits: |
Easy going; Intelligent; Optimistic; Outspoken; Realistic; Stable |
Valued Qualities: |
Chemistry; Compassion; Contentment; Faithfulness; Honesty; Humility; Humour; Kindness; Moderation; Self-control; Sexiness; Tolerance |
Fashion Sense: |
Casual (I'm usually in my favourite jeans) |
Favourite Clothing: |
My trusty pair of jeans |
Favourite Colour: |
Black |
Date Activities: |
A picnic in a park; Dinner at a restaurant; Going to the theatre; Meeting for coffee; Meeting for drinks; Walking on the beach |
Music Preferences: |
Alternative; Classical; Folk; Instrumental; Jazz; Opera; Reggae; Rock |
Reading: |
I enjoy it |
Books: |
(Auto)biographies; History; Non-fiction; Self-help |
TV Habits: |
I don't have a TV |
TV Shows: |
Documentaries; News; Sport |
Movie Frequency: |
Occasionally or irregularly |
Movie Preferences: |
Action; Art Films; Comedy; Documentary; Drama; War |
Interests: |
Cooking; Healthy living; Making Music; Meditation; Photography; Woodworking; Writing books; Writing poetry |
Sport Involvement: |
Watching from the sidelines |
Sports: |
Camping; Cycling; Fishing; Hiking; Motorsport; Mountain biking; Rugby; Soccer; Walking |
Cooking: |
I quite like cooking |
Food: |
Greek; Indian; Italian; Seafood; South African; Sushi; Thai; Vietnamese |
Go Out to Eat: |
I eat out a few times a month |
Dietary Restrictions: |
I have none |
Pace of Life: |
Manageable |
Time at Work: |
I work a standard 40 hour week |
Pastimes of choice: |
Spending time outdoors |
Time Online: |
I'm on for an hour or two a day |
Take Drugs: |
Never |
Family Size: |
I've got a brother and a sister |
Family Closeness: |
We're average |
Relationship Type: |
I'm just plain single |
Willing to Relocate: |
I'm unlikely to move |
Animals: |
I like animals |
Pets (Like): |
Cat(s); Dog(s); Horse(s) |
Pets (Dislike): |
Exotic pet(s); Reptile(s); Rodent(s) |
Turn-ons: |
Assertiveness; Dancing; Flirting; Intelligence |
Turn-offs: |
Sarcasm |
Work Aspirations: |
I already have my ideal job |
Religious Attendance: |
Rarely |
Dream Home: |
Beach house |
Politics: |
Liberal |
Retirement Plans: |
Travelling cross-country in a mobile home |
Feelings about using SA Reunited MatureLove: |
Curious |
Honesty: |
Extremely |
